“To Know Thyself is the Beginning of Wisdom” – Socrates.  Christianna Deichmann

“To Know Thyself is the Beginning of Wisdom” – Socrates. Christianna Deichmann

Christianna Deichmann, RCST®, PPNE from Balanced Bodies unravels some of the scientific and spiritual mysteries that surround the pre, peri and postnatal universe we live in.

Do you believe we all suffer from some kind of trauma before and during birth?

Yes, absolutely. Birth is transformative – it is an event that is an initiation to life. A baby comes into this world and enters a new realm. In order to do this, the child has to go through a metaphorical death of one life, in the womb, in order to initiate another, where they are breathing air into their lungs, and on their own.

The same thing happens during the period of conception – the same transformation takes place – and I do not believe it is an easy transformation. We all know that humans experience hardship and challenge during any transitional period in their life. Periods of transcendence open up liminal and existential spaces that shape who we become.

This touches on the current and prevalent science of somatotropic processes – the study of how matter moves and organises itself to take shape. This happens at various stages of our entire existence. The science has been around for thousands of years but has only recently become a buzzword in our modern culture.

Babies experience their environments in utero. Bruce Lipton, who has been coined the father of epigenetics, has carried out numerous studies that highlight this. Epigenetics means the DNA of an embryo is imprinted in generations prior to its inception – so for example, I was a fully developed egg in my mother’s ovary when she was in my grandmother’s womb at 5 months gestation. My DNA was tagged according to the environment that my grandmother thrived (or didn’t thrive) in.

We know that babies are aware of everything to do with the physical, emotional, spiritual and mental happenings that are taking place inside the mother and in the mother’s surroundings. The baby is bathing in an energy field that is shaping everything about them; their hopes, their fears, their beliefs, their dreams, their neurobiology… Ultimately, we can ascertain that birth is a lifelong event, nevermind the ancestral overwhelm that comes into play as mentioned earlier.

“The latest research in neuroscience and epigenetics reveal the majority of disease is linked to the environment in which a child is conceived, develops in utero, birthed, and raised from the earliest years from 0-3.” This is pretty terrifying for any parent – can you elaborate?

I had this view when I first started this work, and being a mother, I too found it a daunting thought. However, the most empowering statement that you can have as a human being is that you can come to understand who you are and where you came from. This understanding and connection to yourself can help you change who you are and change who your children become.

This science of epigenetics and neuroscience that we are coming to understand is forming this powerful statement that we can claim as a human race – our conscious minds dictate and manifest our realities. We are entering new times and the human race is experiencing a paradigm shift in how we view our reality. We have started to understand the power and destruction that we harness as humans, which is why this is so terrifying.

It holds humans responsible for our actions, and we cannot hide from the truth. However, we can embrace it. We are sacred and spiritual beings, and our children are sacred entities. They understand and know more than we thought they ever did. Helping a child form, develop and grow is essentially the greatest feat you can accomplish on Planet Earth. It is the very essence of love, connection and harmony. Ultimately, it is peace on Earth.

Everything you do will impact your child, and everything that was done to you will shape how you view the world. We can’t shame or blame ourselves for not knowing what we didn’t know, but once we come to know and understand this, we can make a choice for how to proceed with our lives.

This is our greatest challenge facing us now- rediscovering how we can rewire our nervous systems, embrace spirituality and reclaim consciousness over all aspects of our lives, and usher in this new age where babies are honored as the royalty of the Earth.

As a parent, there are many things that you can do to establish a gracious, welcoming and sacred space, not only for yourself but for your child: Personal work on your own behavioral patterns and attachments, bonding with your baby in utero, practicing meditation and mindfulness…

How did you first become interested in Craniosacral Therapy and how did it change your life?

I discovered CST seven years ago when I was 33 and my daughter was 4. I was a single mum at the time and was suffering from severe back pain due to slipped discs. I could barely function and was taking a whole concoction of medication – to no avail. I was going through a life crisis.

A friend recommended I go and see an acupuncturist and I was healed within a month. I did various other treatments and through these, I met a lady who had a daughter with congenital deformities. The only thing that helped her daughter was craniosacral therapy. This lady would practice CST on my daughter who had numerous issues dating back to birth (anxiety, fits of rage..) while I was being treated for something else. This was my first introduction to CST, through my daughter, although I never really understood the process.

A few years later, I had another child and the birth was extremely traumatic – we both nearly lost our lives. I remembered back to how my daughter had received CST three years before and I took my son within a few weeks of being born. The same lady treated him, and she helped us heal from this traumatic birth experience, and helped him to breastfeed.

At this stage, I was hooked, I needed to know more. I ended up working with them for 9 months, worked with their clients and practiced on my family. I trained and certified as a CST practitioner and then started to practice professionally. I went on to study craniosacral in much more depth, amongst other disciplines.

Is Craniosacral therapy best used when combined with other modalities?

I really love being able to incorporate pre and perinatal psychology with somatic experiencing –  which is the artform of being able to help a person feel sensations in their body and help them name and express what they are feeling – in addition to craniosacral therapy.

However, if a craniosacral therapist isn’t trained in any other modalities, that is also absolutely fine. If a person does simply one session of cranio, the body will never forget and it can be resumed at a later stage. The nervous system never forgets. As Peter Levine said “ The body keeps the score!”

Do you believe that if treated from birth, regardless of environment, a person can suffer less from behavioral or psychological issues later in life?

Without a doubt. I dream of a world, in addition to a number of my colleagues, where there is a new practitioner that is prevalent at all births. This practitioner is a pre and perinatal somatic practitioner; a trauma informed touch therapist, versed in polyvagal therapy, somatic experiencing and CST. They are part of the hospital team at the time of birth, every single birth. This is what we are busy working towards – having a collective of practitioners at birth so that we can relieve some of these patterns that appear just from passing through the birth canal or undergoing a C-section – helping the mother settle and allowing for that sacred, gracious space of one hour right after birth – just mother and child.

How do you navigate with a new client?

I always have a first free consultation with someone and ask them to tell me their story. I always ask what their intention is for treatment, which is sometimes quite intricate. 99% of my clients experience some form of prenatal and perinatal somatic therapy from me when they come for treatment, whatever the cause of their ill-ease.

Inevitably, somehow we will traverse the shadowlands of their psyche during treatment. For the most part, they come in not knowing what is really going on, and then we dive in deeper.

When was Balanced Bodies first created and what can you tell us about your practice?

Balanced Bodies has only been in existence since January 2018. I help people of all ages but I take a particular interest in working with mothers and babies because I see them as more vulnerable than others. The irony of this is that the womb is a classroom and we all attend – I see people of any age as they have of course all been babies at some point in time.

Read the original interview HERE!!

Birth in Pieces

Birth in Pieces

When I open google, or turn on the TV, or listen to the news, I have to check my reality and ask myself, “Do I live in an advanced society? Or is this just an illusion of the proverbial American Dream?” We all know the news is depressing and hopeless sounding. When I go to Walmart, or just venture out into society, I can see with my own eyes the state of health people are in, and that’s just the tip of the iceberg. What can I not see? What’s on the inside? With my eyes I can see obesity, agitation, anxiety, fear, anger; but what is going on beneath the surface, in the hard-wiring of their central nervous system? Just look at the statistics for average Americans and how many pharmaceutical pills they pop on a daily average. More than half of the US population swallows an average of four prescription meds with their morning cup of Joe. Wow, what a statement.

I spend a little over $600 a month on my family’s health insurance–that I rarely use, I might add. I spend anywhere from $500-$1,000 a month on top of health insurance to pay for alternative holistic care, services like functional medicine practitioners, craniosacral therapy, acupuncture, supplements, trauma therapists, and somatic-based therapies. All of these expenses are extraneous to our “advanced” medical system that costs billions of dollars a year, which in the reality of my home is a superfluous expense. I can just kiss that money goodbye, I never see tangible results from it, rather it feeds the machine. Ironically, Americans spend more on healthcare than anywhere else in the world, and yet our health is riddled with disease, mental illness, and high mortality rates as if we were a third world country.

Science-based evidence (like the famous Kaiser-Permanente study on ACEs–Adverse Childhood Experiences) points to the prenatal and perinatal developmental time as the root of all illness. What does that mean? It means the way you come into the world and the attachment patterns you form to your primary caretakers in your nervous system in utero and during the first three years of your life will lay the foundation of your health for the remainder of your life. Simply put, your birth and early childhood will be a lifelong event for you. But you say, I don’t even remember my birth or my earliest days on Earth. How little we know…but this is where all the ground-breaking science is happening now. Look at the TIMES or National Geographic, you see neuroscience, gut biome, the enteric brain, epigenetics to name a few.

If you are going to understand how to improve your health, you have to first understand how you were born, and more importantly, how much unnecessary trauma riddles American birthing culture. Shocking trends are shaping the way our children are born. For a first world country who spends more on healthcare than anywhere in the world, the United States ranks 40th in maternal mortality rates. Black American women are three times as likely to die as American white women. In fact, the mortality rate of black American women is 76th in the world, somewhere below Libya, Grenada, China, and the Bahamas.
More sad statistics:
A birthing mother in the U.S. is about three times as likely to die from childbirth than a mother in Canada or Britain
For every American woman who dies from childbirth, 70 nearly die. More than 50,000 women suffer from “severe maternal morbidity” from childbirth each year.
Severe maternal morbidity rates increased by 200% from 1993 to 2014
Over 60% of these cases can be prevented
C-sections are a popular default birthing option for women, but women are not being told how prevalent C-sections are for trauma patterns in infants and moms
Breastfeeding difficulties are at an all-time high and often coupled with tongue-tie layers of trauma. Feeding is a survival issue for babies and can cause deep trauma patterns

I lost trust in the medical system after giving birth to my first child, and I lost all hope in the medical system when my second child came. I want to make repair with this system. I don’t want it to break for other mothers. I want to learn from my experience in order to prevent it from happening to more families. You see, I experienced a lot of birth trauma that no one even talked about. My doctors and healthcare providers didn’t tell me what I experienced was not how birth is supposed to happen. I had to overcome PTSD and postpartum depression on my own. I had to seek out alternative answers. My kids suffered from all sorts of ailments from colic, digestive issues, eczema, nightmares, anxiety, depression, physical disabilities, chronic infections, the list goes on and on. I consider myself lucky, though, my kids aren’t on prescription meds. They were never diagnosed with autism, ADHD, sensory processing, or behavioral issues, because I sought out different means to help them heal. I refused to take the blue pill; rather, I took the red. My doctors would just tell me, your child seems ok, they hit all the standards for their height and weight percentile. “So, she has severe constipation? Let’s do an X-ray, take this prescription and this antibiotic, and don’t worry about the ramifications of killing all of her gut glory and innate immunities…this minor ear infection will be relieved in three days time. Problems sleeping? You really need to try sleep training, or just let her cry it out.”

Time to wake up America. Our children and mothers are suffering, and they don’t feel like anyone is listening. Our health problems are a result of childhood trauma and adverse birthing events. My friend and dear colleague, Kate White, is hosting this January a daylong workshop, Birth In Pieces, alongside some major influencers in the prenatal and perinatal psychology field: Kathleen Kendall-Tackett, Kimberly Ann Johnson, and Molly Caro May.

These professional women are coming together to view and discuss a riveting documentary, Birth In Pieces, a film made in Texas where the rates of adverse birth events and maternal morbidities are unusually high. A revolution is taking place in the healthcare industry, and I have joined the ranks as a craniosacral therapist who specializes in healing families. I am taking a personal stand to prevent birth trauma and improve our overall birthing culture to give our children a chance, and yes, the possibility of world peace.

What role can you play? Come. Join us. Learn how you can prevent trauma and support healing in our birthing families. The day will commence with a free viewing of the film, followed by four workshops for a small fee to support the professionals leading the classes. I have included links below to interviews of each panelist, so you can pick and choose when you join in on the Zoom event or come for the whole day, your choice.

Listen to Kathleen Kendall-Tackett and Kate White: Healing Birth Trauma
Kathy Kendall Tackett Birth in Pieces

Listen to Kimberly Ann Johnson and Kate White:
Kimberly Ann Johnson Birth in Pieces Event January 15, 2022

Listen to Molly Caro May and Kate White:
Molly Caro May Birth in Pieces Event January 15, 2022

Synopsis of the Event

El Jardín Birth and Family began the Birth in Pieces project in 2015. A labor of love, this project spanned multiple years and took various twists and turns as we interviewed more and more women. Patterns emerged. We realized that these individual narratives, together, painted a picture of modern birth culture. What’s wrong with birth in the USA? It’s time to ask mothers. The film is the outcome of their work interviewing mothers and their partners talking about their experiences with birth.
We need to have ways to prevent and heal birth trauma. This is a vital time of life that can set a human being on a trajectory for health or for neurodevelopmental challenges as a baby, child, and adult. We are interested in supporting families to heal so they can thrive. Prenatal and Perinatal Healing Online is pairing with Kathleen Kendall-Tackett to support several series that feature professionals and their ways to support healing with birthing families and birth professionals. Birth in Pieces is our first series. It will feature:
The viewing of Birth in Pieces followed by a discussion with Kathleen Kendall-Tackett and Kate White about birth trauma. FREE Register Here

Kathleen Kendall-Tacket: Birth Trauma: Causes and Consequences of Birth-Related PTSD
Kate White: “I Had A Baby:” A Three-Fold Path to Heal Birth Trauma
Kimberly Ann Johnson: Call of the Wild: Healing Birth through a Real World Understanding of the Nervous System
Molly Caro May: The Reparative Possibility in a Birth Story

January 15, 2022
9 am – 5 pm Eastern time
9:00 am Showing of Birth in Pieces Documentary FREE Register here
10:00 am Discussion of the film with Kathleen Kendall-Tackett and Kate White
11:00 am Kathleen Kendall-Tacket: Birth Trauma: Causes and Consequences of Birth-Related PTSD
12:30 pm Kate White: “I Had A Baby:” A Three-Fold Path to Heal Birth Trauma
2:30 pm Kimberly Ann Johnson: Call of the Wild: Healing Birth through a Real World Understanding of the Nervous System
3:45 pm Molly Caro May: The Reparative Possibility in a Birth Story

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WHY MOTHERS AND CHILDREN?

WHY MOTHERS AND CHILDREN?

Children are the future. But truly, children are often forgotten about when it comes to healthcare, often the treatment of children is relegated behind that of adults. Western medicine still treat babies as if they have no capacity to remember or experience pain because their nervous system is not developed. Recent scientific studies are revealing that nothing could be further from the truth. Epigenetics is a hot topic now and pre and perinatal somatic psychology reveals that babies are sentient, aware and spiritual beings who are fully conscious. Society struggles to communicate with children and understand their struggles, but their bodies record every single experience and their bodies tell their stories. If we can learn to speak the language of the body, we can heal and prevent trauma.  Often we feel they are too young to have had much time to develop health issues. From the moment of conception, though, the human experience, is well….human. Our imperfections and experiences are passed on to our babies, who are so easily impacted. Their spirits are so delicate and their bodies so malleable.

Cranial Sacral Therapy provides a gentle, yet powerful, tool to help infants and children resolve traumatic issues from their birth and childhood experience. Every family has their own birth stories whether they seemed traumatic or not, the birthing process is one of the most difficult challenges every human must encounter.  With today’s obstetrical practices and often times violent birthing practices, a baby’s first deep emotional wounding is its birth. Normalizing a child’s nervous system and structure prevents  post-birth or resolves many issues that may impede that individual now or later in life.  The founder of cranial osteopathy, William Sutherland, had a favorite saying, “as the twig is bent, so grows the tree.” Furthermore, another osteopath made this simple observation, “When we look at a child, we never know who or what that child can be. And when we look at an adult, we never know who or what that individual could have been.”

I treat mothers since they are usually the primary caregivers and they need and deserve treatment. Their nervous system is mirrored in their child’s developing nervous system. Treating the mother is a direct treatment of their child. Plus, I love empowering mothers with the knowledge of how to treat their babies at home. I provide useful tips and techniques that can be applied every day. We can all benefit from ongoing treatment in our lives.

Cultural Impacts on Raising Kids

Cultural Impacts on Raising Kids

APPPAH Module 6 Essay on the Cultural Impacts in the

Prenatal and Perinatal Field

“How Consciousness and Support Lay the Groundwork for Peace and Love or How the Lack of Consciousness Lays the Foundation for Violent Culture” by Christianna Deichmann

 

If parents are conscious of how children grow and develop, and truly comprehend how parenting behaviors and actions predispose attachment styles in their child, then humanity has a chance to lay the groundwork for peace and love and displace violent cultures threaded throughout today’s civilization. Parenting styles and the environment in which a child is reared play key roles in determining a child’s ability to express empathy, compassion and a positive influence upon society. Cultivating a loving and supportive family environment fosters positive connections to society; while critical, discouraging habitats uphold an energetic field of frustration, self-doubt, and embitterment. A combination of both environments is far too often the reality for children in today’s world. In order to change the current state of affairs, parents must consciously raise their children using the power of positivity, accountability, nurturing guidance, connection, grace, and love. If a child’s experience is tainted with opposite emotional institutions, then his experience will be tarnished with anger, hate and violence.

In 1734, Alexander Pope coined the famous axiom, “As the twig is bent, so grows the tree.” His phrase referenced how children’s moral values, behaviors and self-confidence are formed at a young age. Today’s research in neuroscience and pre and perinatal psychology shows the foundation of a child’s psyche is embodied between the ages of 0-3, which is why setting the stage for conscious parenting prior to birth is crucial if we are to succeed in obtaining a peaceful society. James Prescott, in “Origins of Love and Violence” refers to the Bible as he discusses the importance of how parents rear their children. He quotes Proverbs 23:13-14, “Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish him with the rod he will not die. Punish him with the rod and save his soul from death.” Many religious groups use this very stanza along with a few more to encourage corporeal punishment:

“He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.” (Proverbs 13:24)

“Folly is bound up in the heart of a child. But the rod of discipline will drive it far from him.” (Proverbs 22:15)

Conversely, Prescott interprets these stanzas in a positive light, and demonstrates corporeal punishment and physical discipline do more harm than good. Conscious parenting means to be aware and attentive to the cause and affect of your actions. If parents look past the literal meaning of these verses and analyze the historical meaning of the rod, then they would better understand the instructions being provided are describing what type of environment is needed for a child to flourish and grow. The instructions indicate love, positive encouragement, and benevolent accountability are key ingredients to a recipe for peace.

By understanding the etymology of the word rod, parents can deduce that a rod is not a beating stick, but rather a symbol of divine guidance and care. Little distinction can be drawn between the Hebrew words used for “rod” and “staff.” The Bible showcases four different forms of rod and staff with the words Maqqel, Matteh, Shebhet, and Rhabdos. Genesis 30:37 references Maqqel as the twigs of poplar put by Jacob before his sheep, and it appears again in Jeremiah 1:11 as the “rod of an almond-tree.” Matteh is used of a rod in the hand, as the “rods” of Moses and of Aaron in Exodus 4:2 and 7:9. Shebhet and Matteh are interchangeably used of the rod for correction in Exodus 21:20; 2 Samuel 7:14; Proverbs 10:13; Proverbs 13:24; and Isaiah 10:5. Shebhet is the shepherd’s rod used for guiding the sheep when they have been separated from the flock and need rescuing or protection. Psalms 23:4 demonstrates this figurative reference is about divine guidance and care with the stanza, “Thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me.” Conventional wisdom has encouraged spanking, shaming, and separating children in order to get their attention. We should challenge today’s culture by asking parents to consider the effects of spanking on their relationship with their children. Spanking is a means of violence and it disconnects a child from the tools of love and positive accountability.

Jean Leidloff speaks of the Continuum Concept and how civilized cultures have removed themselves from the natural evolutionary process that infants and children experienced over the last few thousand years. Today’s modern society is adversarial to children. She states children are social and they want to be in relationship. Evolutionary processes have historically conditioned children to be in continuous relationships with their primary caregivers, not to be separated and treated as incompetent heathens that are innately self-centered and inherently bad. Leidloff’s Continuum Concept demonstrates that spanking a child or separating yourself from your child through means of shaming, physical punishment, or isolation undermines a child’s natural ability to be loving and peaceful in nature. Ultimately, adversarial parenting distorts their feelings, concepts and belief systems. She draws these conclusions from time spent with indigenous tribes who are not adversarial in the rearing of their children (Leidloff, Jane). On the contrary, the tribal people include the children in all aspects of their culture, and they encouraged independence while simultaneously preserving connection in the social, physical, emotional and spiritual realms.

Lisa Reagan, editor and co-founder of Kindred World, reports on cultural imperatives in the Western world that emphasize a technology-centric, financial-driven, adversarial society. These cultural imperatives impact biological imperatives. Western society gives very little support to nascent families by not providing enough family leave time, or financial support to help parents pay for continuing education, or time away from home during the first few months of having a baby. When parents do not have enough support, then stress becomes a factor in child rearing, which in turn introduces disharmony and disconnection in the family field. In her interview, Lisa lists extensive resources that demonstrate how conscious parenting can transform the world in which we live. These resources include documents released by the Institute of Noetic Sciences and books such as The Secret Life of the Unborn Child by Thomas Verny, and Parenting for a Peaceful World by Robin Grille. Ultimately, everything a parent does or thinks from pre-conception to the first few years of their child’s life impacts their child’s development. Thomas Verny stated, “Womb ecology becomes world ecology” (Reagan, 2016). Nothing can be closer to the truth.

A paradigm shift in consciousness needs to occur in order change the current culture impacts on child development. In order to support new human life that will sustain life-long health, peace, and love, we have to change our daily decisions, public health policy, and our perception of the prenate and pregnancy. The first step is raising awareness. The second step is building an army of healers, practitioners, and pre and perinatal informed professionals who can repair the trauma our culture imperatives have inflicted upon society.

 
 

References

 

Prescott, James. Origins of Love and Violence. Touch the Future.

 

Leidloff, Jane. The Continuum Concept. Touch the Future.

 

Reagan, Lisa. “The New Story of Childhood, Parenthood and the Human Family.” Kindred Magazine. August 6, 2016

Bodywork for Babies

Bodywork for Babies

Understanding Tongue Tie from Birth Onwards

Because tongue ties have such a wide range of consequences, there are a broad range of medical professionals whose input can help you and your child as you navigate post-birth tongue tie issues.

 

In this post, I will discuss the role of the bodyworker, who can help your baby to experience the movements and the kinesthetic stimulation that they need to relieve tension from their bodies. Bodywork can benefit every baby, but I will also talk about why it is particularly beneficial for babies with tongue ties. When a frenectomy is planned, bodywork beforehand and afterward can help improve surgical success, restore functionality, and foster proper development of the face, jaw, and airway.

 

What is bodywork? Bodywork is the use of hands-on touch and physical therapy to allow a baby’s soft tissues to release tension and reorganize. A typical bodywork session could take place in the bodyworker’s office or in your home, and you may hold your baby while the bodyworker works on them, or the baby could be placed on a bodyworker table, on the floor, or in the bodyworker’s lap. The bodyworker will use slow, gentle movements across the baby’s body, paying particular attention to the head and neck, the shoulders, trunk, hips, and feet. The bodyworker may touch and attend to the inside of the baby’s mouth as well. They may reposition the baby as they work to help with alignment.

 

Bodywork should not be painful or uncomfortable for the baby in any way. Generally, babies find touch pleasant and will experience the sessions as relaxing. Babies may cry during the session due to the stimulation, but if you are concerned at any time then you can let the bodyworker know. Typically bodywork will be between one and ten sessions, depending on the particular needs of your baby, the type of bodywork and each session usually lasts about 30 minutes for infants.

Bodywork is performed by a professional such as a skilled osteopath, a chiropractor (trained in craniosacral therapy and treating newborns), an occupational therapist, a physical therapist, or in some cases a highly skilled massage therapist with extensive in infants and craniosacral therapy. The bodyworker administers this physical therapy in order to relieve tension in the baby’s body, which strengthens and lengthens the muscles – especially those associated with breathing and breastfeeding. Bodywork also helps support neurological integration, the process by which the baby learns to control and move their body. There can be issues with reduced neurological in Caesarean or mechanically assisted births, so bodywork can help redress this issue by giving the baby the natural stimuli that they may have missed due to the birthing process.

 

Why is bodywork necessary? As just mentioned, the birthing process has an effect on the way that the baby emerges into the world. In the case of assisted births, babies do not benefit from the natural process of having their autonomic system turned on, and are furthermore birthed in a state of extreme tension. This is known as a process called “armoring,” which can involve the baby having breathing issues, having cold or sniffle-like symptoms, and having limited movement of the chest or other body parts.

Bodywork interprets these issues as related to tightness in the chest, throat, or other body parts. Babies may be oversensitive to touch, suggesting an issue in a particular area. Bodyworkers seek to locate these areas of tension or hardness and to gently stimulate the area through touch, allowing the connective tissues to relax and the tension to dissipate.

When the topic of bodywork is brought up, many pediatricians are skeptical about how necessary it is. They will often say that the human race has managed for thousands of years without bodyworkers, so why are they necessary now? The answer to this is that the way we live now is vastly different to how we lived hundreds or thousands of years ago and this affects both gestation and the birthing process.

Even a few hundred years ago, we moved a lot more such as walking regularly and performing manual labor in fields or in the home. Pregnant women were not exempt from this work – they would work well into their pregnancies and regularly perform movements like squatting, bending over, and walking. This exposed babies in the womb to kinesthetic stimulation. In addition, the birthing process itself was very different. Babies were born in a natural process without induction (through drugs like Pitocin), manual assistance (like forceps or vacuum extraction), or Cesarean section. All of these factors helped alleviate the need for a bodyworker, as did birthing rituals such as passing or holding the baby, or rubbing the baby with salt as is done in some cultures.

In the past, the tensions that babies experienced could be naturally worked through various methods, including sleeping the baby on their stomach or wearing them close to the parents’ bodies (which is still quite common in some areas of the world).

 

Why is bodywork important for tongue-tied babies? Today, babies typically spend a lot of time in one position in utero. Some babies will be born with torticollis (asymmetrical head or neck position) which can continue to affect the connective tissue and the shape of the head long after birth. These modern birthing practices can mean that babies are born with strains, tensions, and torsions which can lead to a host of problems over time. What’s more, so-called “container babies” spend excessive amounts of time either swaddled (sleeping on their back), or otherwise immobilized in car seats, swings, bouncers, strollers, and more. This is largely known to be the reason for a huge increase in positional plagiocephaly, or flat spots on the head. Bodywork addresses these issues.

 

All of the issues that bodyworkers fix can be a problem for tongue-tied babies – breathing and eating in particular. Bodywork can help babies to ameliorate the negative effects of tongue tie. Because facia is how we are connected from head to toe, and because the tension created in the mouth from the tongue tie creates tension elsewhere in the body, the help of a bodyworker can release the tension pre-surgery, making the surgery easier for surgeon and baby. The less tension in the mouth, neck and head after surgery means less tension on the wound and better healing overall. Bodywork is most useful when performed before and after frenectomy surgery.